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Debra Ruthven

Debbie A. Ruthven

June 4, 1962 August 30, 2019

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Obituary for Debbie A. Ruthven

Debbie A. Ruthven of Ann Arbor died August 30, 2019 after an eight-year heroic struggle against cancer. She was 57 years old. She was born in Dearborn on June 4, 1962 to Gerald and Patricia Juneau. She is survived by children Brittany and Zachary Ruthven; father Gerald Juneau; brother Paul Juneau and sister-in-law Dianne Camp; and her significant other, Joseph Cadegan. She was predeceased by her mother Patricia Juneau.

Debbie will always be remembered for her passion for four things in life. Debbie had a great love of gardening and cooking. She shared this latter passion by hosting numerous gatherings with her friends and family and by instilling this love of culinary activities with her two children. Debbie was also a talented hair-stylist and shared her passion and gifts with numerous clients, many of whom became good friends over several years. But of all of Debbie’s passions, her love of her friends and family was the most important thing to her and she shared this love generously.

Visitation will occur on Wednesday, September 4, 2019 from 3-7 PM and Thursday, September 5, 2019 from 2-7 PM (with a rosary prayer at 7 PM) at the Nie Funeral Home, 3767 W. Liberty Rd., Ann Arbor. She will be in-state Friday September 6, 2019 from 10 AM until her funeral mass at 11 AM which will be held at St. Francis of Assisi Roman Catholic Church, 2250 E Stadium Blvd, Ann Arbor. Memorial contributions to the The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society (3 International Drive, Suite 200, Rye Brook, NY 10573) would be appreciated.

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  • Visitation

    Wednesday September 4, 2019 | 3:00pm - 7:00pm
    Nie Family Funeral Home & Cremation Service, Liberty Road Chapel
    3767 W. Liberty Road
    Ann Arbor, MI
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    Wednesday September 4, 2019
    3:00pm - 7:00pm
  • Second Visitation

    Thursday September 5, 2019 | 2:00pm - 7:00pm
    Nie Family Funeral Home & Cremation Service, Liberty Road Chapel
    3767 W. Liberty Road
    Ann Arbor, MI
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    Thursday September 5, 2019
    2:00pm - 7:00pm
  • Funeral Mass

    Friday September 6, 2019 | 11:00am
    St. Francis of Assisi
    2250 E. Stadium Blvd.
    Ann Arbor, Michigan
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    Friday September 6, 2019
    11:00am
    Instate at 10:00 am
    Officiant
    Fr. James Conlon

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Sylvia Colasacco

Debbie was more than just my mom's neighbor. She was a part of our life. A family member, a friend, a sister. She did my hair when I visited my moms when visiting from college. She supported my art and had it hung up in her home. She loved my kids and they would hang out at her house when we visited. She braided their hair and made them pretty. Toward the end we talked about things. She shared her wisdom about life and all the trials that come with it. I will cherish our last conversations. I will miss her. It will be hard knowing when I visit that she's not there next door with her doors open ready to entertain my girls or to visit with her. RIP Debbie. Thanks for the butterflies 🦋
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moses and rose everett

Our heartfelt condolences to Jerry, Brittany, Zachary and Joe.
We have known Debbie since the first day she moved into the neighboring house, approximately 25 years ago. We became friends immediately, very much due to Debbie's friendly , open and generous nature. We watched as she nurtured her 2 young children, Brittany and Zachary, both of whom have grown into admirable adults. . Debbie was full of life and energy. In fact we called her the “Energizer Bunny”.She was always up for a dinner or party or game of euchre. Debbie especially enjoyed celebrating Halloween and Christmas and always had beautiful decorations with Halloween and Christmas lights that lit up and cheered the neighborhood during the dark winter nights. Debbie's beautiful gardens and home décor inspired many, including us, to emulate her talents.
Debbie loved to cook and was a very good cook. She would often complain that she couldn't bake and , like the Debbie we knew, persevered until she felt she had achieved her goal of making a really GOOD tiramisu or flan. She'd work on it until she got it right! Her courageous , persevering nature , and her zest for life continued during her long and difficult struggle . She set an example of living life to its fullest regardless of the circumstances. She will be sorely missed. Rest in peace, dear friend, our dearest Debbie. Rose and Moses Everett
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Katie Maddock

Our deepest sympathy to Jerry, Paul, Zack, Brittany and Joe for the sad loss of Debbie.
Debbie was much loved by so many people and will be greatly missed by us all. She will never be forgotten and will remain always in our hearts, living on in our memories of her.
Goodnight matey and God bless. You will be the brightest star in the sky and shine so beautifully like you always did xXx
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Darryll, Ilene & Keith

Deb was a lovely, kind and generous neighbor and friend and she will be missed. We'll always be inspired by her strength and determination.
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Pam Rowe

Dear friend. I am thankful for the conversations and texts we shared. Your faith and strength were so encouraging. We reflected back on our times growing up on the Island. Your profession that you loved so much. Your love for your family and friends made you, you! My prayers will continue for your family and friends during this challenging time. Until we meet again, rest in peace dear sweet Debbie.
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